So this is off-topic, but I’m taking my first trip to Napa this spring with a friend… I’ve received a few great tips from someone in the know (thank you, M!) but am always in search of other ideas and inspiration. If you have thoughts on where we must go or must eat (French Laundry is booked solid, plus although I am sure they are amazing, they are a bit expensive), please let me know. I’m all ears.

About Dr. Debby Herbenick

Dr. Debby Herbenick

Dr. Debby Herbenick is a sex researcher at Indiana University, sexual health educator at The Kinsey Institute, columnist, and author of five books about sex and love. Learn more about her work at