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How To Take My Clothes Off

When Debby proposed a fashion week for MSP, I immediately thought back to the magazines tucked away in my parent’s garage, and a particular article in one of my favorite magazines.  You see, back in the early 00′s (the naughts if you’re nasty), Nerve.com, the online community for thoughtful hedonists, had the gall to try and start a print magazine.  These artfully done issues had sexy stories and pictures, which made for a wonderfully erotic read.  However, their insistence on running sex-positive and feminist images and stories made it look woefully out of place next to the other porn mags, so the print version of the website was stopped after a scant six issues. Continue Reading →

Sex that lasts a long time (as in, all afternoon?)

Last week, I wrote about four types of sex that everyone might want to consider giving a try, beginning with a few tips about having Passionate Crazy Sex.  This week my focus is on Lazy Day in Bed Sex. Although lazy days in bed are perhaps easier to come by when you’re in college or grad school (after all, you’re not going to get fired or lose a pay check if you’re late to class or skip one altogether in favor of a romp in the sack), even adults with jobs and/or kids can spare an occasional day to relish in bed. It’s called a “Personal Day.” Why do I rank this type of sex so high? Because intimacy is important – and although setting aside 15 or 30 minutes for sex makes sense most of the year, every now and then we can all benefit from a reminder than while sex isn’t everything, it is indeed something special to many of us. Continue Reading →

Better Oral Sex Tip #4: How to make oral sex feel more pleasurable.

Tip #4 for Yummifying Oral Sex: Practice without pressure. Our previous three tips for yummifying oral sex have been mostly about how to make it better and more enjoyable as a giver. This week’s tip is all about the giver. The fact is that not all women and men enjoy receiving oral sex. Those that want to learn to enjoy it, or to orgasm from it, don’t always know what steps they might take in that direction. Continue Reading →

How to make oral sex better: Oral Sex Tip #1

Most Americans have had oral sex – and most (but not all) people like receiving it. But what about giving it? Attitudes vary dramatically. Some people only perform oral as a means of getting oral, or perhaps they do it solely to please their partner. Then there are those who crave oral sex so intensely (and with such pleasure) that the slightest thought of it means they can almost taste it. Continue Reading →