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An Educational E-Card: Later in Life Lube

I am a huge fan of retro e-cards, especially the Anne Taintor-style retro cards that have been “re-written” for humorous purposes. So, I went looking for a card today for my father’s birthday and found (I know, don’t judge me, it just happened to be one of the first Google results, I swear!) and they had a variety of card types that fit the very aesthetic I was looking for: “Retro and Vintage,” a “Gallery of the Absurd,” even a section of velvet paintings turned e-cards. I found this one card, though, that was just as educational as it was funny: Continue Reading →

Better Oral Sex Tip #2: How to make oral sex taste better

Tip #2 for Yummifying Oral Sex: Make it tasty. As I hinted at last week, one – but only one – of my four tips for yummifying oral sex has to do with taste. That’s because while flavor certainly has something to do with enjoying oral sex, by no means is it everything. Though taking regular showers and baths is (I hope) assumed, it’s worth saying that cleanliness – within reason – can enhance the way that oral sex tastes (there’s no need to tirelessly scrub your genitals, however, as that can irritate them). Also, although some people immediately think of flavored lubricants when they think of ways to change the taste or flavor of oral sex, but in fact flavored lubes are only one possibility. Continue Reading →

MSP (Potentially) Great Sex Position of the Week: Woman on Top (wait, there’s more!)

Yeah, I know. You’re probably thinking how often you’ve heard about the wonders of woman-on-top (WOT) only to find that, um, it kind of sucks. At least for some of you. Some of you probably love it and others are, like, meh. The thing about WOT is that it’s yours for the taking. Continue Reading →

Fleshbot’s Best of Sex Advice Section: Guess Who?

For the second time in recent memory, Fleshbot has given a shout-out to my In&Out sex column (which appears in Time Out Chicago) in their Best of Sex Advice feature - this time, referencing a column in which a reader asked for information about improving sex quickies. Someone posted a comment on Fleshbot that said “if a person can’t have a quickie, then no advice column is going to help” but I disagree! Some folks – believe it or not – simply haven’t heard of lube, which can work wonders if you don’t have time to get all wet and slathery on your own. Other folks don’t keep condoms on hand or they try awkward positions or they think you must have intercourse in order to have a satisfying but quick sexual encounter. Not so – as I point out in TOC 135. Continue Reading →