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MSP Valentine’s Day Gift Idea #2: A Facebook Profile

Just because this blog is called doesn’t mean that it is only about sex – it’s also about love and relationships, including those with your own parents and family. If, like me, you’ve found that you largely share information about and pictures from your life on Facebook, then perhaps it’s time you set up a Facebook profile for your mom, dad, grandparent or favorite aunt/uncle with whom you wished you kept closer ties with. With their permission, offer to set up a Facebook profile – even if it’s an ultra-private one with no profile picture or personal information shown to anyone (some people, especially those with less experience with the Internet, may feel particularly hesitant about social networking sites). Benefits of this gift are that:

- It’s free! – It’s easy to set up. Continue Reading →

MSP Valentine’s Day Gift Idea #1: Lingerie or a Sexy Costume

Just because it’s still January doesn’t mean that it’s too early to begin thinking about or planning for Valentine’s Day – unless, of course, you are planning to ignore it in which case I would still love to hear your thoughts on these gift ideas: yay or nay? Though some feel that lingerie and costumes are overrated as gifts, there’s a reason that they remain on many people’s minds around Valentine’s day: namely, their link to romance, seduction and sexual expression. One of my favorite web sites for lingerie and sexy costumes is, a web site that features a broad range of lingerie/costumes in a wide range of sizes. Their styles flatter diverse figures and they don’t just ”dress” women – men’s costumes are available for sale, too. Check out their Valentine-themed costumes on their web site. Continue Reading →

MSP Holiday Gift Idea #3: Sticks Boxes and Furniture

Sugar plums may not dance in my head, but Sticks accessories and furniture do. One day I may treat myself to one of these pieces but until then I’ll just dream… I would LOVE to own a Sticks keepsake box or a thing for over the door (I like the one that says "Go out for Adventure, Come home for Love"). The dresser drawers and chests are amazing, too, as are the night stands and clocks and oh…. I could go on. Continue Reading →

MSP Holiday Gift Idea #2: It’s All Well and Good by Beth Moses

To add to previously mentioned gift ideas, let me suggest the book "It’s All Well and Good" by Beth Moses, a woman who I have heard speak publicly several times (she’s great!) and upon whom I’ve turned to many times for the gift of holistic massage therapy and talking things out. I’ve also been turning to the wisdom of her book for, oh, about 5 or 6 years. Though it is booked with information about massage, self-care, stretching, meditation, relationships, and finding balance, her words have helped me (and quite a few friends) through difficult times related to love, sex, school, work, and family. It’s one of those books that you can pick up and just read a page or two, and be good to go for a while. Her book has also had an important influence on the ways in which I try to blend love and sex with issues of ethics and integrity. Continue Reading →