MSP Valentine’s Gift Idea #4: Come Together

Come Together: the name says it all. Not that simultaneous orgasms are needed, mind you – rather than it feels good to pleasure each other, or to pleasure each of your own selves in the company of your beloved.

This kit from Babeland includes a massage oil spray (genius!), the Laya spot vibrator on which women can lay down for a no-hands pleasuring experience (though you can hold it with one’s hands too, if preferred), a c-ring for guys, toy cleanser (gotta keep toys clean), condoms, batteries (for the sake of vibration) and little packs of lube. With these toys – and a little mood-setting and open, comfortable conversation – I can imagine quite a bit of romance going down.

About Dr. Debby Herbenick

Dr. Debby Herbenick

Dr. Debby Herbenick is a sex researcher at Indiana University, sexual health educator at The Kinsey Institute, columnist, and author of five books about sex and love. Learn more about her work at