Taking Sex For Granted

I love this clip from Louis CK on Conan (Yes, Conan!!) about technology and how people take things from granted. And I can’t help but thinking how parts of the same clip apply to sex, too.

“Everything is amazing right now and nobody’s happy.”

Stop taking your iPhones and your sex for granted! If possible. Yes, your cell phone signal is going to space. But the way you lightly trail your fingers along your partner’s body while gazing into their eyes or kissing their lips is going to both their brain and their heart – and those signals and how they get there are similarly complex and mysterious as compared to space.

It’s all magic, people. Magic, I tell you! Enjoy it as you find it.

About Dr. Debby Herbenick

Dr. Debby Herbenick

Dr. Debby Herbenick is a sex researcher at Indiana University, sexual health educator at The Kinsey Institute, columnist, and author of five books about sex and love. Learn more about her work at www.sexualhealth.indiana.edu.