This week’s Time Out Chicago – Sex with a friend’s dad? A lesbian interested in some guy at the local bar? A boyfriend who’s craving anal sex? It’s all here.

In this past week’s Time Out Chicago, in my weekly In&Out sex column, I answer questions from readers who want to know about the ethics of fantasizing about having sex with a friend’s dad – they’re all aduls here – (and maybe actually doing it); a lesbian who is into a guy even though she’s not into guys more generally speaking; and a guy who wants to have anal sex and other types of exploration that his girlfriend isn’t into. Read the full column on the Time Out Chicago web site.

About Dr. Debby Herbenick

Dr. Debby Herbenick

Dr. Debby Herbenick is a sex researcher at Indiana University, sexual health educator at The Kinsey Institute, columnist, and author of five books about sex and love. Learn more about her work at