Fleshbot’s Best of Sex Advice Section: Guess Who?

Quickie

For the second time in recent memory, Fleshbot has given a shout-out to my In&Out sex column (which appears in Time Out Chicago) in their Best of Sex Advice feature - this time, referencing a column in which a reader asked for information about improving sex quickies. Someone posted a comment on Fleshbot that said “if a person can’t have a quickie, then no advice column is going to help” but I disagree! Some folks – believe it or not – simply haven’t heard of lube, which can work wonders if you don’t have time to get all wet and slathery on your own. Other folks don’t keep condoms on hand or they try awkward positions or they think you must have intercourse in order to have a satisfying but quick sexual encounter. Not so – as I point out in TOC 135.

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About Dr. Debby Herbenick

Dr. Debby Herbenick

Dr. Debby Herbenick is a sex researcher at Indiana University, sexual health educator at The Kinsey Institute, columnist, and author of five books about sex and love. Learn more about her work at www.sexualhealth.indiana.edu.

  • http://www.wahoo.com/ Wahoo

    Thank you for sharing!

  • http://www.wahoo.com/ Wahoo

    Thank you for sharing!

  • Anna

    A quickie in the office is essential. We never have more than 5 minutes. The first time I was so excited and wet it was perfect. With time we learned the wonders of lube.

  • Anna

    A quickie in the office is essential. We never have more than 5 minutes. The first time I was so excited and wet it was perfect. With time we learned the wonders of lube.

  • Dr. Debby

    A) You’re welcome, Wahoo.

    B) Yes, lube! Many, many wonders… lube facilitates quickies, eases “genital fit” issues, and generally can make sex more comfortable. Glad you and your partner have discovered its uses around the office, too!

  • Dr. Debby

    A) You’re welcome, Wahoo.

    B) Yes, lube! Many, many wonders… lube facilitates quickies, eases “genital fit” issues, and generally can make sex more comfortable. Glad you and your partner have discovered its uses around the office, too!