About Dr. Debby Herbenick

Dr. Debby Herbenick

Dr. Debby Herbenick is a sex researcher at Indiana University, sexual health educator at The Kinsey Institute, columnist, and author of five books about sex and love. Learn more about her work at www.sexualhealth.indiana.edu.

  • KH

    I can't relate to the premise. I have never had boring foreplay or sex. It's like pizza and coke when you're hungry, or getting a paycheck when you need money. How does that ever get boring??? Who's ever had a boring orgasm?

    Or perhaps the problem is that high-sex-drive people like myself don't really ever get the opportunity to have frequent enough sex for long enough time for it to ever get boring. I envy people who find a partner who is willing to have sex often enough for it to become boring!