Dr. David Schnarch, in Passionate Marriage, talks about intimacy and connection as a means of turning one’s partner on. And of course it makes much sense: touching or licking a partner is only one way to turn someone and it doesn’t always work. If you and your partner don’t feel psychologically connected then even very good sexual technique may hit a few dead ends. So, consider these thoughts on turning on your partner without even touching them.
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