Turning Someone On Without Even Touching Them

Turning Someone On Without Touch from Debby Herbenick on Vimeo.

Dr. David Schnarch, in Passionate Marriage, talks about intimacy and connection as a means of turning one’s partner on. And of course it makes much sense: touching or licking a partner is only one way to turn someone and it doesn’t always work. If you and your partner don’t feel psychologically connected then even very good sexual technique may hit a few dead ends. So, consider these thoughts on turning on your partner without even touching them.

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About Dr. Debby Herbenick

Dr. Debby Herbenick

Dr. Debby Herbenick is a sex researcher at Indiana University, sexual health educator at The Kinsey Institute, columnist, and author of five books about sex and love. Learn more about her work at www.sexualhealth.indiana.edu.

  • http://www.bringbackdesire.com/ Ande Lyons

    Terrific video Dr. Debby re: stimulating the G-spot located between the brain! Deepening intimacy and celebrating what you love about your beloved keeps you tuned in and turned on.  In the Kosher Sutra Rabbi
    Shmuley tells us “eroticism is the thrilling desire to connect: to know,
    to explore, to penetrate, and to comprehend.”  I agree!

    Love your sweet puppy!

  • Debby Herbenick

    I loooooove that quote! Thanks so much for sharing it – perfectly put!