MSP (Potentially) Great Sex Position of the Week: Woman on Top (wait, there’s more!)

Yeah, I know. You’re probably thinking how often you’ve heard about the wonders of woman-on-top (WOT) only to find that, um, it kind of sucks. At least for some of you. Some of you probably love it and others are, like, meh.

The thing about WOT is that it’s yours for the taking. There are numerous ways to make it into a position that you enjoy. If you’re a woman who likes g spot stimulation and have a partner whose penis points upward or straight out in a 90 degree angle,you might try leaning backward to get the most of WOT. Do you like g spot stimulation and yet you have a downward pointing partner? Then by all means, turn around and reverse cowgirl it.

Does your guy go soft when you hop into WOT? Or, if you’re a guy, does this describe you?) Then ladies: Try squatting on top of him, rising up until your body is around the head of his penis, and then let him thrust upward. Does he like full-shaft stimulation? Have him lay still and tense his pelvic muscles while you squat on top and then rise up and down, up and down, in quick rhythmic ways.

Men: are you (perhaps uncomfortably) well-endowed? Slather on some water-based lube (I like Good Clean Love) and have her hop on top, allowing her to control the movements so that sex feels comfortable. 

Some couples find WOT challenging (read one of my old Time Out Chicago columns for more on this topic). But really and truly, there are a thousand ways to make this a delightfully pleasurable and maybe even orgasmic sex position. Have at it and keep me posted if you have any questions, curiosities or feedback.

[Originally posted in my weekly column at CheekyChicago.com]

This is Part 2 of a four-part series on sex positions. See Part 1 here.

About Dr. Debby Herbenick

Dr. Debby Herbenick

Dr. Debby Herbenick is a sex researcher at Indiana University, sexual health educator at The Kinsey Institute, columnist, and author of five books about sex and love. Learn more about her work at www.sexualhealth.indiana.edu.

  • F

    Hello there,

    You may be the answer to my desperation. My hubby is tall 6 4 and about 240. I on the other hand 5 4 and 270. My hubby loves WOT but I have only been successfull achieving that position twice and I think I had been drinking when that was achieved…and hubby came really quick. I have painful knees so it is not very comfortable to bend them and have my wieght pressing down when I am on top facing him. Also if there is a lot of moving around attempting to get in position my hubby gets soft and usually will say I’m too wet. To night I plan to try the revise cowboy because we are successful with the WOT 69. If you have any advice, please share because my hubby really loves the WOT position and so do I

    Thanks
    F.

  • F

    Hello there,

    You may be the answer to my desperation. My hubby is tall 6 4 and about 240. I on the other hand 5 4 and 270. My hubby loves WOT but I have only been successfull achieving that position twice and I think I had been drinking when that was achieved…and hubby came really quick. I have painful knees so it is not very comfortable to bend them and have my wieght pressing down when I am on top facing him. Also if there is a lot of moving around attempting to get in position my hubby gets soft and usually will say I’m too wet. To night I plan to try the revise cowboy because we are successful with the WOT 69. If you have any advice, please share because my hubby really loves the WOT position and so do I

    Thanks
    F.

  • markiee

    My wife catches me coming out of the shower on our anniversary, my b’day, her b’day or at her whim and takes me by my arm dragging me toward our bed. She sits down, grabs the towel wrapped around my waist and drops it to the floor as she pulls me across her knee in one quick fluid motion for a bare bottomed spanking. She spanks me until she gets her desired response then caresses and strokes me until I calm down a bit. She lets me up and puts me on my back as she rides me and has me suck on her breasts until I loose control. WOT always gets me excited as it triggers hot sore memories for me here in Virginia.

  • markiee

    My wife catches me coming out of the shower on our anniversary, my b’day, her b’day or at her whim and takes me by my arm dragging me toward our bed. She sits down, grabs the towel wrapped around my waist and drops it to the floor as she pulls me across her knee in one quick fluid motion for a bare bottomed spanking. She spanks me until she gets her desired response then caresses and strokes me until I calm down a bit. She lets me up and puts me on my back as she rides me and has me suck on her breasts until I loose control. WOT always gets me excited as it triggers hot sore memories for me here in Virginia.

  • Debby

    Stay tuned. Your question will be answered in an upcoming column!

  • Debby

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