My Sex Professor (http://mysexprofessor.com/author/craig/page/3/)
Craig VanKempen, LLMSW/MPH, is a sex educator and therapist practicing in the Detroit/Ann Arbor area. His professional interests include HIV, polyamory, compulsive sexual behavior, religion and sexuality, and GLBT issues.
As a follow-up to the wonderful article on Vagina Hero, I wanted to share this:
Penny Arcade, one of the gamer communities’ flagship webcomics, is at times both hilarious and offensive. Is also occasionally impenetrable as well, especially if you aren’t versed in gamer speak. Fortunately, I am more l33t than n00b, so I am able to keep up with at least half of what they say. Continue Reading →
I know it’s still a while before the next Twilight movie comes out (November 18th, 2011, <as if you didn’t know>), but it seems like vampires have become a ingrained part of our cultural zeitgeist. The logical next step, of course, is to bring them into our bedrooms.
One needs to be careful here, or injuries could happen (see this post from Michaela for a cautionary tale). However, one of the safer ways to bring the bite into the bedroom is through toys. Here are two sex toys that, depending on your proclivities, you want to either purchase before the next full moon or avoid like a rabid werewolf. Continue Reading →
I hope a few of you, over the past few months, were thinking “Didn’t there used to be a dude who wrote for this site? I wonder whatever happened to him?” Continue Reading →
Trojan® recently released a sexual health report card for US campuses showcasing what they consider the most “sexually healthy” schools. And, guess what! University of Michigan and Michigan State were both in the top 5! Go Michigan schools! The study looked at data from health centers and student opinion polls, looking for availability of contraceptives, STI/HIV testing, and education/advocacy groups, among other things. I’m very proud that Michigan cracked the top 5, mainly due to the hard push that everyone in the health center has been making to make sure Michigan is one of the most sexually healthy colleges in the U.S. Continue Reading →
I’ve been doing a lot of thinking and research around non-monogamy and polyamory lately, and wanted to share a few books and resources I’ve found. First, I found this wonderful resource, which is akin to an FAQ for people who are considering polyamory. It’s written by Match.com, so I don’t know if there’s an ulterior motive, but it seems like a very useful resource for people who are questioning their mono-centric culture. Next, my Facebook friend posted this fascinating visual representing the different types of non-monogamy. Because I appreciate visual representations of data, I really enjoyed thinking about all the different intersections that this explored. For those who are confused, it is really like a mutant Venn diagram with many different overlaps. Continue Reading →
Recently, Susan Wilson wrote a blog post on Sex, Etc. lamenting the lack of male sex educators. She cited societal pressures, gender norms, and basic discomfort with males and sexuality as the main reasons this disparity exists. She shared a quote from an administrator who was concerned about male sex educators because they are “teaching to students who are potentially only three to four years younger than they are and in fact ‘datable’ outside of school.” Continue Reading →
The University of Michigan’s student counsel president Chris Armstrong has been a subject of national attention lately, due to the attacks on him by Assistant Attorney General Andrew Shirvell for spreading his “radical homosexual agenda” on the University of Michigan’s campus. You can see the interview with this “concerned Michigan alumnus” as linked by MSP here. I was really amazed by the students’ reaction to this on campus, and how it has morphed into a campaign promoting respect on campus. Continue Reading →
While this may be common knowledge among those who have beautiful milk-filled breasts, I was surprised recently when breastfeeding was mentioned in one of my workshops as a method of birth control. After going to the trusty internet, I was amazed at what I found – for 6 months after birth, breastfeeding will be almost as effective as the pill at preventing pregnancy. Breastfeeding.com has the whole story, but here are the basics: Continue Reading →
A friend directed me to this hilarious musical the other day called Me and My Dick, so I thought I’d share it with the sex-positive folks on MSP. I’m proud to say that it was directed and produced right here at the University of Michigan, by the same folks who did A Very Potter Musical. Continue Reading →
Since I am currently writing a paper on the different definitions of “date” and “hookup”, I am always interested in new research that comes out which talks about the definition and practice of various sexual situations. That’s why I was intrigued when I found two articles referencing the same scientific study about “booty calls.” Kinsey Confidential’s own Kristen Mark talks about it here. Salon.com has an interview with the author here. However, shouldn’t there be more technical names for these important sexual issues? Talking about “the booty call” and “one night stand” seems weird. What about a “Telephone-Initiated Long term but Mostly Sexual relationship?” (TILMS) Or perhaps a “Brief One-Time Sexual Encounter” (BOTSE). Because, let’s face it, there’s very little standing involved. Continue Reading →